PodcastSeason 1

Love & Relationships

What Are Love Languages? + Communication & Conflict Resolution Advice From Dr. Arthur Aron

S1 E4 46 minutes

Close relationships are something most people yearn for, but those in a romantic relationship know they take much more work to sustain than you initially expect. In episode 4, Lianne & Corey discuss the importance of knowing and loving yourself, understanding your values and deal-breakers, and bringing the best version of you into your relationships.

Discovering your love language, and how learning to speak your partner's, can keep their "love tank" full and enrich your lives together. Our hosts then interview love and relationship expert and creator of the 36 questions that lead to love, Dr. Arthur Aron.

Backed by scientific research and a 50+ year-long happy marriage of his own, Dr. Aron shares advice on how to build strong, passionate relationships. He covers how to prepare yourself for a new relationship if you're single, and for couples, how to keep your relationship fresh exciting once that "new love" phase wears off.

In this down-to-earth episode, you'll learn a bunch of new tools to mindfully improve your relationships, no matter what your relationship status on Facebook.

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Get To The Point

0:32 What to Expect Summary of Episode 4

1:13 Quick Quote By Gary Chapman

1:38 Focus On... Relationships. Learn how loving yourself lets you better love and be loved by others

3:05 Be the Best You Know your values and deal-breakers to bring the best version of you into your relationship

5:41 Digging Deeper Love Languages. How can knowing yours improve your relationship?

8:04 Expert Interview Dr. Arthur Aaron on what research says about finding love and strengthening relationships.

40:41 Interview Digestion Key takeaways from interview

43:46 Take It Further Recommended books, films, and apps

Show Notes

Happiness in a relationship requires first being happy within yourself. A deep, internal dissatisfaction could be behind negative patterns in your past relationships. By loving ourselves, we can better receive the love of others and also share our love in return.

Knowing yourself and understanding your values, deal-breakers, and responses to difficult situations help to bring the best version of yourself into a relationship and builds the confidence to openly communicate with your partner.

Love Languages were originally identified in Gary Chapman's iconic book, The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, which we recommend so you can effectively speak your partner's love language and keep their "love tank" full. You can even take an online test to quickly determine your primary love language. Chapman has also written books on love languages specifically for children, teens, singles, men, workplaces, and the military.

Key Interview Takeaways

Connect With Dr. Arthur Aron

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Research Professor of PsychologyAuthor

State University of New York at Stony Brook

As a highly accomplished educator and academic writer, Arthur's research into personal relationships has widely impacted the field of psychology. He received his Bachelors degree from Berkeley in 1967, followed by a PhD in social psychology from the University of Toronto in 1970. He is widely recognized outside academic circles as the creator of the 36 questions that lead to love and has enjoyed over 50 years of marriage to his wife, Dr. Elaine Aron.

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Sensitive Lovers: A Deeper Look Into Their Relationships2020 1 hour
A 1-hour documentary featuring psychologist Dr. Elaine Aron (The Highly Sensitive Person) and the eminent scientist of love and relationships, Dr. Arthur Aron. Based on their lifelong research of close relationships and the trait of high sensitivity, they explain how negative childhood experiences and buried traumas affect our adult relationships. They break down the science behind the most critical scenes of Sensitive and in Love and provide suggestions for highly sensitive people and those close to them for wiser, more skillful, and fulfilling relationships.
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Sensitive and in Love2020
What do you do when you feel you are born with an unbearable flaw, and you don't know yet that you share it with 1.4 billion people? This dramatic film focuses on Rob and Jessica who grew up feeling just that. Inspired by the work of Dr. Elaine Aron and Dr. Arthur Aron, Sensitive and in Love tells the story of this brother and sister who share a traumatic childhood. Jessica is an accomplished writer in San Francisco, but every one of her romantic relationships has crashed and burned. Rob, a successful music producer in Manila, has a seemingly happy marriage, but it is headed for a cliff. Robbie insists Jessica comes to the Philippines for a much-needed break. While there, a single mistake opens Jessica to the world and a terrifying moment for Robbie opens him to a real family connection.

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